Bernard Marquez

Bernard Marquez http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/ My life is all about Jesus, family, friends and fun! Tue, 19 Aug 2008 06:21:30 -0000 Mon, 11 Aug 2008 06:24:35 -0000 Bernard Marquez http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/logo http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com 100 100 Monday Off Had morning devotions with kids. (We're going through book of Mark)Prayed with Ivy. Breakthrough and Miracles. Relationships and Work.Didn't eat breakfast.Ate good chicken dish for lunch.Kids and I had good discussion over lunch about where to go for college.Ivy and I had a discussion about UP being the best school. hmmmm....I offended her. I said sorry. We hugged and kissed. Ok na.Plans for the week... - Counseling. - Small groups for men and young couples. - Teach Pastoral Services to 3rd year students this friday - Parenting seminar for VCS parents on Saturday - Play badminton with Ardy, Vera, Trina, Margot, Edwin and Ivy on Wed. - Improve pastoral service. - Thought hard about Mayet Lempin - I know i will miss her in the pastoral service - Looked for tire supplier, one wheel is out. "One of this thing is not like the other" Read books. What's your story? (How to be a good communicator)Innovation, Motivation, and Parenting books. Had haircut. Bought Slurpee for David. ... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/102/Monday_Off Mon, 11 Aug 2008 06:24:35 -0000 Home Norm <img class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SJ3iTwoKCh8AAH1hCEE1/domestic-violence-is-a-crime.jpg?et=eljAw0fvSXrGXA0%2CE3LZYA&nmid=0" border="0"> WARNING: Verbal and physical abuse happens even in 'Christian homes'.What rules your home? Love or Hate? Kindness or Rudeness? I cannot over emphasize the value of home norm. -When parents allow violence, verbal abuse and unforgiveness lurk in their home, it is likely that these kids will apply the same behavior to their relationships as adults.-Researchers have found that children who witness domestic violence are likely to have abusive relationships as adults. Domestic violence include: Shouting, calling names, physically injuring spouse or kids, banging doors, jumping off from cars, hitting each other with objects, throwing plates, breaking picture frames, tying kids, locking up kids in toilets, etc. - "One clear piece of advice for parents never, ever hit each other in front of your children" (According to Professor Terrie Moffitt, Institute of Psychiatry) --- I would say... Never to hit at all!!! Period. Domestic violence is not new to Philippine culture. I have cou... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/101/Home_Norm Sat, 9 Aug 2008 18:21:04 -0000 "888" Swelte O Baka Luck lang <img border="0" class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SJv@LwoKCh8AAByNqVM1/Raffy-Mutya.jpg?et=gu2BdVVdm707%2BppYTNgEHw&nmid=0"><a href="http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SJv8yQoKCh8AAH@jC@Y1"><img border="0" class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SJv8yQoKCh8AAH@jC@Y1/Christine-Hinch2.jpg?et=tlWX8D5ceFeoB3Bi9Ya68w&nmid=0"></a>Today lots of couples are set to be married. Its 080808. Meneee pipol feel its swelte -- dis is lakee nambrr.otso otso otso I just did a wedding in Tagaytay this morning and it was fantastic. It was a filipino wedding.<img border="0" class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SJv7mwoKCh8AAGQh-1E1/Chinese-Couple.JPG?et=Bp%2BFf1iaLuMcQE79Cuo4sQ&nmid=0"> The couple got together few of their friends in a small hideaway resto in Tagaytay (Chateau Hestia). It was great. It was intimate. Lots of crying, laughing and great food. I saw my long lost cell group member: DJ and Christine Hinch. They were in charge of the kitchen. Kakatuwa. It was a reunion. These great chefs from CCA can serve you unforgettable dining experience. Needless to say, I had a great feast today. I ate lots of veggies, chicken breast and Panna cotta for dessert. (remember my vision --- "Marcus and Ringo" --- still in my mind) zip... zap...zuey.... Back to my subject: 888 or 08-08-08. Is it the date that makes the marriage great or the commitment of the couple towards each other? So, I interviewed a chinese couple during reception. They have married ... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/100/888_Swelte_O_Baka_Luck_lang Fri, 8 Aug 2008 08:10:11 -0000 My Vision What's Mr. Universe, US military Bomb expert and I Have In Common? Nothing. Just this picture. One day, whether in this life of the life to come... I will have this kind of body. Actually, pareho lang naman kami ng body mass eh. Pero, yung akin mas flexible lang. During our staff meeting one time we were asked "What's your vision?" I said, "One day I will be a hunk". So I looked for a picture to be my vision of my future and I found this. On my right is Mr. Universe, Ringo Borlane. Abs nya parang Gardenia Pandesal. Solid. Parang dancer. (Solid dancer... get it????) And on my left Marcus Barrett , a US military expert on Bomb disposal. He's the bomb. Anyway, this is a picture of the future. Hope in the seeable http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/32/My_Vision Thu, 7 Aug 2008 04:08:04 -0000 Chinkee Tan in INQ 7 So proud to see you bro in the http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/links/item/6/Chinkee_Tan_in_INQ_7 Mon, 4 Aug 2008 12:42:54 -0000 Being a Counselor <a href="http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SISgGAoKCh8AAG94NKY1"><img class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SISgGAoKCh8AAG94NKY1/crying-ou-boy-screenshot.jpg?et=1sD2a5FXN7tGESEChQVc9w&nmid=0" border="0"></a>There are many times my heart bleed for people who walk into our office asking for some time and attention.  Stacks of email and text of pain and confusion. <img src="file:///Users/bernard/Desktop/crying-ou-boy-screenshot.jpg" alt=""> I guess God knows why I would have a job like this.  I am a feeler.  I feel for people.  I cry deeply and I hurt when people get abused, get humiliated and get abandoned.  Anyway, I found this article... Hope it helps. Qoute: When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. "I want a divorce!" I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, "Why"? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to f... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/97/Being_a_Counselor Mon, 21 Jul 2008 14:52:14 -0000 Courage To Speak <a href="http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SJnYBwoKCh8AAFhcG1M1"><img style="width: 172px;height: 151px;" class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SJnYBwoKCh8AAFhcG1M1/Courage.jpg?et=7qA%2C4lzxn4BQYQhGe77r5Q&nmid=0" border="0"></a>Do you sometimes wonder why Jesus got into lots of trouble? 1. He took his stand. The Pharisees challenged him, “Here you are, appearing as your own witness; your testimony is not valid. John 8:13 2. He was persistent. Every day he was teaching at the temple. But the chief priests, the teachers of the law and the leaders among the people were trying to kill him. Luke 19:47 Do you find yourself getting in trouble for saying things (true and well meaning) and still your audience can't get you?  Worse is, they are mad at you. Do not despise, you are not alone.  Most of the great men of the past were counter positioned. I remember one time when one of my friends who was so eager to share his idea and many of the people in the room were not in agreement with him.  I saw him humble down and kept quiet.  I remembered that day when I had a chance; I talked to him and encouraged him that his idea was great.  But I thought they was not ready to hear it.  It was ahead of... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/95/Courage_To_Speak Mon, 23 Jun 2008 01:15:29 -0000 Windmill Photos at Bangui - Ilocos On your way to Pagudpud you will pass by a breathe taking view. THE WINDMILLS Huge. Excellent. Amazing concept. http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/31/Windmill_Photos_at_Bangui_-_Ilocos Fri, 28 Mar 2008 17:25:31 -0000 David in Motion My eldest son enjoying our vacation. Its really challenging to have kids beyond 10 years old to enjoy parents company. But this trip... we broke the code. He enjoyed every bit of http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/30/David_in_Motion Fri, 28 Mar 2008 04:58:00 -0000 Pray for My Mom - Jessie Marquez Ariel, myself and Christine have been in prayer over the past 6 months for the quick recovery of our mom. She has an enlargement of the heart due to a blockage in one of her major arteries. She has also been diagnosed with Parkinson disease which makes it really hard for to move around. She is a very patient person, but has low tolerance of pain. She hates going to hospital more so under going operation. We are believing for her blood pressure to normalize and all her vital signs to indicate good health. She is undergoing operation today. Believe with http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/29/Pray_for_My_Mom_-_Jessie_Marquez Thu, 27 Mar 2008 18:54:06 -0000 Sandless Beach - Have You Heard Of It? At first I cannot believe there is a beach in the world without sand. But as you see.... Its All Smooth stones.... Maybe David got his smooth stones from here....(To hit Goliath). Very Nice Experience. http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/28/Sandless_Beach_-_Have_You_Heard_Of_It Thu, 27 Mar 2008 02:23:52 -0000 La Union - Day 1 La Union is known for its gorgeous beaches. Its called the Surf capital of the North. Our La Union trip was very memorable because of the Magsaysay Family who took care of us from the time we arrive 'til we parted ways in Luna beach. Miko, "A", Mittos, Miggy, Daddy and Mommy Magsaysay --- Super thanks! From: Bernard Marquez Family, Macalino Family and Mendoza http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/27/La_Union_-_Day_1 Tue, 25 Mar 2008 16:27:59 -0000 La Union - Day 2 Kainan to the max... Pulpog (Bagnet na ginawang sisig), BBQ, Okra, Mangga, Bagoong, Sili, Coke, Royal, Suman, Bangus, Longanisa, Itlog, Daing, Cereals at marami pa.... To the Magsaysay's.... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/26/La_Union_-_Day_2 Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:57:48 -0000 Di Pagod, Pero Pudpud! For the first time, I was able to beat my fears about going to the 'ends of the earth'... Pagudpud is located at the very tip of the northern part of the Philippines. We drove 1415.4 kms. from house and back. Over 300 liters of gas and tons of mineral water and juice to keep me awake during the journey. From La Union, to Vigan, to Laoag, to Pagudpod, to Blue Lagoon, Back to Paoay, to Batac, to Vigan again, then to Naguilian, to Baguio, to Dagupan --- then Back to Manila!!! We saw lots of things.... Marcos body, Fort Ilocandia, Wind mills, lots of Beaches, Sandless Beach, John Hay, Vigan's longanisa, Dagupan's fresh bangus, San Carlos' Mangoes, and a lot more.... No Complaints! No Regrets! No http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/25/Di_Pagod_Pero_Pudpud Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:22:11 -0000 DISCIPLESHIP LESSONS FROM MULTIPLY.COM <a href="/photos/hi-res/upload/R9niSAoKCh8AAA11USE1"><img border="0" class="alignmiddleb" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/R9niSAoKCh8AAA11USE1/Post%20invite%20Search.jpg?et=N4WLDingDQKobfRfcViQ7Q&nmid=&nmid=86201116&nmid=86201116&nmid=86201116&nmid=86201116"></a>After a while, discipleship can be difficult for leaders. We look for things we can do together. Search in the web for things to teach our disciples/members in the group. And sometimes try to look in the bookstore FOR BOOKS we can use as teachings materials. But JESUS never intended it to be a difficult task. Jesus' discipleship method is so simple. That's why even multiply.com use it too: 1. Post In the dictionary, it means, to display, to make available, to publish. In discipleship - it means to be available, to make your voice clear for people to know what you stand for and believe. Can they see a clear message of the gospel? Or does your message confuse them because its not the same as the message you are preaching? MAKE YOUR MESSAGE CLEAR. LIVE YOUR LIFE AN EPISTLE. I like the saying of St. Augustine " Preach the gospel at all times, if necessary use words" 2. Invite Jesus' style of discipleship has always been personal. Let's not make the big mistake that "meetings... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/90/DISCIPLESHIP_LESSONS_FROM_MULTIPLY.COM Fri, 14 Mar 2008 03:01:44 -0000 This Is Why I teach My Kids Good Communication Skills <a href="/photos/hi-res/upload/R9XYJAoKCh8AACbwHFI1"><img border="0" class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/R9XYJAoKCh8AACbwHFI1/Picture%201.png?et=iqBZ7pJNS8q7soXVOl5zIw&nmid=&nmid=85723383&nmid=85723383&nmid=85723383&nmid=85723383&nmid=85723383"></a>Asking my kids what they want to be in the future is a recurring exercise in our family. I am constantly assessing if they are looking towards the future and is aware that schooling and discipleship is very important to be successful in life. David (14) is so sure he wants to be in the computer field. He wants to work in APPLE, in Cupertino , California, and work for Steve. He likes the idea of having Steves as his main leader in life. Daniela (10) on the other hand wants nothing but baking. She is passionately into kitchen stuff, food and dining tables. One day Gabrielle came to me and expressed her desire to be a super model, an actress or a fashion designer. I was shocked and also excited. The typical mindset in me is reacting that she needs to have a Bachelors degree in either Science or Arts or Engineering or Medicine. Gabrielle is our family's most consistent, loyal and task oriented person. Give her something to do and for sure she will get it done (very much like m... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/89/This_Is_Why_I_teach_My_Kids_Good_Communication_Skills Tue, 11 Mar 2008 00:54:58 -0000 How Not to Fish - Engaging? or Frustrated? Discipleship is very similar to fishing. They catch fish, we catch people. Sometimes when we fish for men and it seems like its such a difficult task. But patience is a key virtue in winning people to Christ. A pastor was sharing to me before, "When you are not getting the results you desire in witnessing for Christ - DO NOT MUDDY THE FISHING HOLE" I sometimes get frustrated when you reach out to people and yet they feel they don't need Christ. Its like I want to tell them --- &%#$^@!!!! Grrrr...!!!! Sometime I am tempted to get "pikon" with these people. (Ika nga ng assumptionista kong friend) 'I am getting so pinkon na ha..." Don't be. I've learned from an Indian friend - "Be patience at all times" (Verbatim) If people can't pay... He just says, "Balik lang ako - kaibigan - Walang problema... Bukas pwede pa rin bayad... doble lang. Pero pwede pa rin." Let's learn from people and their advices. “All human wisdom is summed up in two words - wait and h... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/video/item/21/How_Not_to_Fish_-_Engaging_or_Frustrated Tue, 4 Mar 2008 04:50:41 -0000 Love hurts For the whole month of February, our Sunday messages was all about love songs. Last sunday's service was so remarkable. Watch Jose's unbelievable offering number. Be amazed at their creativity. Its like you're not in church - but you http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/video/item/20/Love_hurts Wed, 27 Feb 2008 19:31:32 -0000 Gusto Mong Ma Encourage? Click Either one of these: <a href="http://joeybonifacio.multiply.com/">Father of the Blogs</a> <a href="http://dennis128.multiply.com/journal/item/135/BLOGS_WORTH_READING?replies_read=4"> Clueless Preacher</a> <a href="http://smurrell.multiply.com/journal/item/160">Bruce on the Run</a> <a href="http://robhernjr.multiply.com/journal/item/51/Bakit_List">Taglish type mo?</a> <a href="http://juraydeah.multiply.com/journal"> Pang Family ?</a> <a href="http://punzalan.multiply.com/journal/item/97/GAP_THEOLOGY"> No clue how to raise a kid?</a> <a href="http://lamumar.multiply.com/journal/item/146/What_JOEY_BONIFACIO_MC_HAMMER_AND_JESUS_taught_me.._"> Youth ideas ?</a> <a href="http://bible.com/bibleresources/passagesearchresults.php?passage1=mt+6%3A33&passage2=&passage3=&passage4=&passage5=&version1=31&version2=0&version3=0&version4=0&version5=0&Submit.x=0&Submit.y=0"> Money?</a> http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/88/Gusto_Mong_Ma_Encourage Mon, 25 Feb 2008 04:37:41 -0000 Is It All About looks? <a href="/photos/hi-res/upload/R8G0AAoKCh8AAGoMz4s1"><img class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/R8G0AAoKCh8AAGoMz4s1/Paul%20Potts.jpg?et=2Z3PZToDlOU8NHC0R0Kycw&nmid=&nmid=83492552" border="0"></a>People are cruel.  They look at the outward appearance.  Like<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sxOytYLlhiQ"> Paul Potts</a>, people thought he was a joke (because of his eyes and teeth).  But he proved them wrong.  In Britain's got talent - he was brilliant after all. Have you ever been judged before?  People never gave you a chance. People stopped you from trying. Hey, I have good news for you: "Don't listen to them". Remember Blind Bart.  He kept shouting (siguro dahil hindi nila siya makita --- bulag kasi sya eh)... "Jesus... Have mercy on me!" He tried. He tried. And still tried.  And then, Jesus gave him all the attention he needed. In fact Jesus, in this occasion, said this famous line: "The Son of man came to serve... (Not to be served)."  It's like Jesus saying to him - "Hey, Man of faith am here for you.  Ready to serve. What do you want me to do?" (Mk 10:44 - 50) Message of Life: Have faith! "TRY AND KEEP TRYING." --- Keep on believing! Its only those who are sitting down and lying around ... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/87/Is_It_All_About_looks Sun, 24 Feb 2008 18:22:18 -0000 Preacher In Blue Jeans <a href="/photos/hi-res/upload/R8Gp9AoKCh8AAHnYcSE1"><img class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/R8Gp9AoKCh8AAHnYcSE1/Bo%20and%20BGM.jpg?et=2rk64XBxZAo2pjjk4v5KKw&nmid=&nmid=83488524&nmid=83488524&nmid=83488524" border="0"></a>I have been blessed to have a wife that is so intelligent, loving and patient.  My wife, Ivy and I, have been homeschooling for nealry 10 years now. It has been a great journey. Through the years, we have struggled (but overcame), innovated, researched ideas on how to better homeschool our kids and not burn out. You too can be a successful homeschooler. If you feel like its hard, dark and difficult - maybe its time to see the other side you have never seen.  I like what Jesus said: "Nothing is impossible to those who believe." Mt 17:20 (Have faith) Adidas copied it too: "NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE" Here is a clip on homeschooling. ("Preacher in Blue Jeans" is Bo Sanchez's Vlogs for soul nourishment) Click here: <a href="http://preacherinbluejeans.com/videos/20080219/feb-19-2008">An Interview with Bo Sanchez. </a> I really like talking to Bo he is so humble and sincere.  He is also an avid MAC user. (Kaya pala pareho ang spirit) http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/86/Preacher_In_Blue_Jeans Sun, 24 Feb 2008 17:37:12 -0000 Gabe and Happy Slip Model Doing crazy things for my family is what I always wished to do. Our long term memory can only retrieve those file with outstanding images and experiences. Last week I was able to file one with my daughter Gabe. I had a date day with my daughter Gabe and she wanted to go and meet in person Ms. Happy Slip. I didn't know she will be in Manila. But of course my kids know what's up in city. Happy slip maker Christine Gambito was here last week, sponsored by Dept. of Tourism and Yehey Phils. It was a blast. Gabrielle was so excited to see her. She was Number 1 in the line for photo session. Gabe met her. She wasn't shy at all. She talked to her, embraced her, had her sign a photo for herself, her sister and mom. I really enjoyed spending this date with my daughter. It seemed trivial, but to her it was BIG. It communicated to her - "I like what you like". Dads can be cool too. (Like fall in line to wait for a signature and photo????) I did this crazy thing because... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/23/Gabe_and_Happy_Slip_Model Sun, 10 Feb 2008 15:35:26 -0000 How Vision Starts <a href="/photos/hi-res/upload/R6XiLgoKCh8AAFjje4A1"></a><a href="/photos/hi-res/upload/R6XicwoKCh8AAGYCxhM1"><img class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/R6XicwoKCh8AAGYCxhM1/RBP9001984_Veer.JPG?et=7J80tUmXVxOaT5gv0yiUzA&nmid=&nmid=80484051" border="0"></a>Some people just have quick access to insights and some can see vision easily.  But for the rest of us, its a struggle, a trial and error, a painful crawl. Well,l this story from Monsignor Dale Fushek provides a slow unfolding of vision of why some of his parishioners are leaving and looking for another community. He received an invitation from a family of a teenager who decided to leave their church.  After the dessert, teenager and "not-yet" Father Fushek were left in the dining table. "What's new?" asked Fusek. "You know what's new? said the teenager.  "That's why you're here." "I heard you don't go to church anymore.  Why do you have trouble believing the Pope?" "No" the boy replied. "Do you have trouble believing the moral teachings of the church?" "Not at all. I am following them." "Do you believe in the Eucharist - that is really the body of Christ in communion?" "Yes, you have to.  It is there in the bible, right?" "Does your new church believe that?" Fushek aske... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/85/How_Vision_Starts Sun, 3 Feb 2008 15:55:43 -0000 16th year Anniversary January means, New Year, Ariel's B day, Father in laws B day, 7 fasting and also our Anniversary. This year we celebrated our 16 years of marriage . After 16 years, our kids are now 14, 12, 10 and my wife has proven to still be the sexiest woman alive! How sweet it is to be loved by you! http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/photos/album/22/16th_year_Anniversary Mon, 28 Jan 2008 16:03:20 -0000 Day #3 Fasting <a rel="nofollow" href="/photos/hi-res/upload/R4bxQwoKCh8AADpkU8E1"><img style="width: 218px; height: 177px;" class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/R4bxQwoKCh8AADpkU8E1/food7a.jpg?et=R89kk8xQh1zMODz%2C%2C1Ws%2CA&nmid=" border="0"></a>Still alive. Excited. Never been so eager to hear. My first few days of fasting before was all about food-reduction, attending church meetings and being with friends (even sometimes cheating and lying about the kind of fast i do just to project good image).  But as years progress and more understanding comes, i realize it has to do with God and what He wants to say. I remember those days I struggle trying to pray and stretch my words to prolong my praying time.  I kept talking.  I kept writting... Thinking its all about me and how i reach out to Him. But the truth is... Its all about his reach, his voice and his purposes.  I remembered this verse:  Isa. 59:1 Surely the arm of the LORD is not too short to save, nor his ear too dull to hear. God is able to speak.  Be confident to hear.  Allow Him (period). Prayer through the years I can't forget the formula for prayer A-C-T-S. (Adoration-Conffession-Thanksgiving- Supplication).  But I really had a hard... http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/83/Day_3_Fasting Fri, 11 Jan 2008 04:32:22 -0000 Children Do Best When Brought Up In Married Families <a rel="nofollow" href="/photos/hi-res/upload/R4JYbAoKCh8AAF1fCmU1"><img class="alignright" src="http://images.bernardmarquez.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/R4JYbAoKCh8AAF1fCmU1/PDP0605043_Veer.JPG?et=QZFWtJQucPkaUNJr50u8dQ&nmid=" border="0"></a>This is a nice cut and paste story that will encourage your heart if your parenting.  Even when you're just struggling to keep your marriage intact, strong and functional.  Be encouraged - the future is a good reason to build strong families. Children Do Best When Brought Up In Married Families "It said it also accepted that children are better off with married parents than with parents who cohabit." Read further: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://bernardmarquez.blogspot.com/">Just click here</a> http://bernardmarquez.multiply.com/journal/item/82/Children_Do_Best_When_Brought_Up_In_Married_Families Mon, 7 Jan 2008 17:02:58 -0000